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Debra L. Kaplan, MA, MBA, practices counseling and therapy in Tucson and helps people suffering from the effects of complex trauma, childhood abuse, and mood disorders. Debra can be contacted through her profile here: http://www.goodtherapy.org/m15_view_item.html?m15:item=Deb886%40comcast.net and also http://www.goodtherapy.org/Boston-therapy.htm